Trans on grindr
Jeremy is one of an increasing number of straight men on Grindr , the hookup app created in for men who have sex with men. Earlier this month, he left Tinder , the go-to hetero dating app, after averaging a measly two matches a week and meeting only four people in six months. And because they have penises, they know what it should feel like, or at least all the little details. This is one consequence of the trans revolution: Gay male spaces and lesbian female spaces are being erased. Gay men: How do you feel about straight men on Grindr seeking TS who post "no men" from askgaybros. More importantly, Mark says, it seems nobody is making a good-faith effort to understand heterosexual trans-attracted men.
Heterosexual Men Are Using Grindr to Meet Trans Women
One straight Grindr user named Jeremy told Smith that he has had more luck finding trans women to date on Grindr than on Tinder. Since joining Grindr, he has had two hook ups with different trans women. Smith writes :. This is one consequence of the trans revolution: Gay male spaces and lesbian female spaces are being erased. But we digress…. If you are a woman, what are you doing on an app specifically for men looking for other men?
Its a lot more empowering to state what you seek than what you xxxclude, but the men-centric nature of Grndr makes such seekers get overly specific. On side note: The New Gayz—that great umbrella of self deluded queerness and gender proliferation—are great at pointing out all transphobia in the gay male community but fail to face the homophobia among trans lovers and many trans themselves.
This article seems extremely misleading from the original. The few quotes that the author pulled appear to appeal to a specific point of view instead of providing a more holistic representation of the conversation Smith was looking to open. I have no issue with transgender women being on Grindr. Not any different than the other obnoxiously worded exclusionary profiles. Grindr is an app for gay men to hook up with other men for sex, there are apps for women and transwomen to hook up with or meet men.
Sexuality is, as you say, pretty easy. For me, you need to look like a man and have all man parts. Not necessarily gay but definitely not straight. Same thing but without being a d! Please log in to add your comment Need an account? Search for:. Get Queerty Daily Subscribe to Queerty for a daily dose of life dating datingapps stories and more. Heywood Jablowme Good comment. Which is worse? Obviously b is worse! Add your Comment Cancel reply Please log in to add your comment Need an account?
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One straight Grindr user named Jeremy told Smith that he has had more luck finding trans women to date on Grindr than on Tinder. Since joining Grindr, he has had two hook ups with different trans women. Smith writes :.
After a life-shattering break up, I tried to find a new, stronger version of myself in sex.
Newly-purchased iPhone 11 in hand, I opened up Grindr in Williamsburg hoping to see the guy whose ass I'd eaten a few months ago that I knew lived around the corner from the Verizon store I'd just left. But when the app loaded, I was no longer logged into my account, and every attempt I made to recover my password failed. That was annoying, because it meant I'd have to set up an entirely new account, and all the men I'd blocked — literally hundreds, not an exaggeration — would regain access to my profile.
